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Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Ben Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Bend, OR favorites:
Breakfast šŸ„ž: @sparrowbakery - their French toast sticks are divine and their pasties are literal art. We ate here twice during our stay and would recommend it over and over again! 
Dinner šŸ½ : @bendbrewingco - Fried cheese curds, fresh and flakey fish and chips and amazing burgers, with beautiful patio seating right on the River. Plus everything was reasonably priced. 10/10 recommend. 
Coffee Shop ā˜•ļø: @dudleysbookshopbend - the CUTEST bookstore/coffee shop combo. Grab a cup of coffee or cocoa and a book all in one stop.
Entertainment: Catch live music and play golf in a state-of-the-art golf simulator at @waltreillysbend and grab a late night snack while you’re at it!
Adventures: Explore Lava River Cave and hike to Tumalo Falls! Both are great adventures and not too intense of hikes - Tumalo Falls is a trail with several waterfalls featured in the above reel!
Bend was a dreamy slice of heaven and we cannot wait to go back - it’s the most delicious little town in a dreamy setting. 
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Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive d Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive doggo very seriously. 🤣 
It is a dream come true to be able to take him to work with me every week and to see him become a confident little warehouse dog who takes greeting everyone who comes in very seriously and who patiently lets us dress him up in accessories. When you shop from MSC, you are now supporting a family owned, women run small business AND a cute doodle! It’s a win-win!
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Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t ha Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t have to be all doom and devastation. It’s not always easy, but we’re finding more joy and beauty in just living and exploring and taking advantage of all the time and freedom this new chapter of life has to offer us. 
Our week in the Oregon Wilderness has given me so much life, so much clarity, and so much energy for creating a life that I love. I realized I have so much to give, so much to do, and so much to be, even if I don’t have children or a family the way I thought I would. 
I do have a family. And I do have Littles to still leave a legacy behind for - and an example to set for. And that’s enough for me. 
#heytherechelsie #lifeafterinfertility #pnwadventures #bendoregonlife #oregoncoastline #portlandoregonlife #infertilityawareness #infertilitywarrior #infertilitysucks #ttccommunity
At least I know he’ll never leave me because he At least I know he’ll never leave me because he can’t survive on his own. Jk jk - love you babe! 😘
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Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing matching jumpsuits and learning a tik tok dance in 90+ degree heat. Can’t think of anyone else I’d rather spend time with, making memories and watching chick flicks and eating endless amounts of nerd gummies and cheeze-it’s. 
P.S. I checked inventory and we only have FOUR of these left in stock right now. Don’t wait to snag it! 
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These nails win every šŸ‘ thing šŸ‘ @polkadotte These nails win every šŸ‘ thing šŸ‘ 
@polkadottedbysyd knocks it out of the park again. Don’t be afraid to save if you want to use it as inspo!
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Dustin has never given up or given in on creating Dustin has never given up or given in on creating a beautiful life together after our journey to have children ended last year. Instead, he has thrown himself into finding the next chapter of our story and I’ve been hanging on to him for dear life as he ran full force into our new future. 
After working so hard for so long, he signed and closed on a darling house in The Poconos, Pennsylvania that we will be turning into an air bnb this summer (and vacationing in it ourselves in the fall) 🄳
If you would have told me last October as we went through with my hysterectomy that we would have a vacation home in the East to spend the next October in, I would have laughed in your face. I’ve never doubted Dustin, but it seemed impossible to think about moving forward with new dreams and goals after our journey to have kids came to a crashing hault. 
But here we are - creating a life we love and doing our best to make the most out of the cards we’ve been dealt. 
I can’t wait to take you all on this new adventure (because guess who is in charge of furnishing and managing the new air bnb?) 
Thank you for always cheering us on. We love you. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #lifeafterinfertility #childlessnotbychoice #realestatedreams #airbnbhosts #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #infertilitysucks #thepoconos
We have to change the narrative around those going We have to change the narrative around those going through infertility journeys. We have to stop saying: ā€œdon’t give up - you’ll get your baby someday!ā€ It’s doing a lot of unspoken damage to those of us in the throes of infertility. 
I understand that many say this to be positive and uplifting, but when we were faced with making a heartbreaking choice to end our infertility journey, I felt like I was giving up. Instead of confidently making a decision to remove the organ that was slowly killing me, I looked at other infertility accounts and saw the repeated message that if I kept on pushing through treatments, i too, would get my baby. I felt selfish and unsure that putting my health first was truly the right thing to do. There was almost nothing out there to help us find peace and validation in ending our infertility journey without feeling like massive failures.
I have felt so called to speak on this now that we’re in this next phase of life and to do my best to share a perspective I wish I had access to last year. I hope that by speaking up and sharing our life in this next chapter, we can help those who are looking for hope in moving on from infertility without a pregnancy or baby. 
If you are reaching the end of your journey, I want you to know that you are not giving up. You are not a failure. You are choosing to not let infertility destroy you. 
It’s okay to grieve the life you wanted, but I want you to know you can still build a life you love. 
You are not giving up. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #infertilityawareness #childlessnotbychoice #lifeafterinfertility #adenomyosis #hysterectomy #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #ttcsisters #ttctribe #ivfsupport #miscarriage #ihadamiscarriage

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The Best of Hey There, Chelsie 2016

Although this year was crazy, I definitely don't feel like it flew by as fast as others. Between all the crazy moves and huge life changes we made, this year definitely had times where time went by a little slowly, and other times where it sped right up. All in all, though, I am really grateful for this year and all the lessons I learned from it. But, I'm also really looking forward to 2017 (hopefully the year of NO major moves) and to continuing to grow HTC in new and exciting ways. I wanted to round up some of my best posts this year (a combination of those that did well on social media and some of my favorites that I wrote.) It's a really good way to look . . .

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19 Comments · Written On:December 29, 2016

PLANN for Instagram // Hey There, Chelsie

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7 Time-Saving Hacks for Bloggers

This shop has been compensated by Collective Bias, Inc. and its advertiser. All opinions are mine alone. #CentrumFunFlavors #CollectiveBias I know I might sound like a broken record, but ever since we moved to Utah back in September, life has become busier and more hectic than ever. Between our new jobs, only being 20 minutes away from some of our best friends and family, and projects for my blog, we have just been going non-stop. I won't lie, it's been downright exhausting at times and my health and blog have suffered from my lack of energy and endless to-do list. Thankfully, I've been able to implement several time-saving hacks into my life recently that not . . .

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26 Comments · Written On:December 19, 2016

Looking to step up your Instagram this holiday season? Here's a fun Instagram challenge AND 30 holiday photo ideas for Instagram! Spread some holiday cheer and grow your instagram with these holiday photo ideas! // Hey There, Chelsie

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The #myvibrantholiday Challenge + 30 Holiday Photo Ideas for Instagram

Instagram and I have a pretty complicated relationship. I mean, I started my Instagram years before I started blogging seriously and used it like any normal person would: to share 10 overly-filtered photos a day of Rosie and the food I was eating. No pressure to have a perfect picture or feed and no stress on how many people were unfollowing me. Just photos of my life. When I started blogging seriously, I started a long journey on redefining my Instagram account. I knew I had to treat it more like a business and put a bit more effort and thought into the photos I was posting, but it was a struggle to find the balance between gaining followers, sharing ā€œperfectā€ . . .

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54 Comments · Written On:December 6, 2016

The December Report: Blogging Goals, Stats & Income. Sharing the growth I've seen in my blog this month, how I grew social media channels like Instagram and what my blogging income was! // Hey There, Chelsie

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The December Report (Personal & Blogging Goals & Stats)

It's my favorite time of the year (and the most wonderful time of the year, too, in my opinion.) I really can't believe it's the last month of the year, but at the same time, I'm excited it's here! I wish time would slow down just a tiny bit so that I can enjoy my Christmas tree for as long as possible. November was an exceptionally crazy month with the holidays and the people who live below me (if you get the Hey There, Monday newsletter, you'll know exactly what I'm talking about.) It started off a little rough but it ended with family, food, golden snuggles, and some exciting future projects in the works, so I'm stoked about what's to come! I'm going to . . .

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25 Comments · Written On:December 2, 2016

HTC Updated Color Scheme & Blog Branding // Hey There, Chelsie

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5 Ways to Get Re-Inspired to Blog

It's been no secret that I hit a bit of a rough patch with my blog this summer. I was in limbo, I lost my motivation and inspiration and couldn't see the bigger picture for a long time. I didn't have a clear focus on what my whole point was, I kept getting overwhelmed by what everyone else was telling me to do and I was frustrated with my lack of growth on social media channels. It was #badnewbears. And I pretty much just did the bare minimum to keep my blog running. But that was this summer. And now it's basically the end of November and I can say (very happily) that this is no longer the case. I'm feeling REALLY motivated and inspired again and wake up every . . .

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40 Comments · Written On:November 22, 2016

Why it's SUPER important to OWN your blog (and not rely just on social media.) I had two really scary things happen to me in the blogging world last month: Someone tried to impersonate me on FB and Twitter announced that they were shutting down Vine. These two things made it VERY clear why blogging is not dead and why it is so important to HAVE a blog. Click here to find out why you, as a small business owner or even someone in direct-sales needs to own their own website and not rely soley on Facebook or Instagram! // Hey There, Chelsie

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Why it’s SUPER important to OWN your Blog (and not rely on just social media)

I haven't talked about the actual topic of blogging in quite some time, but two different things happened a couple weeks ago that made me want to get on here and chat to all my blog/small business friends because they both scared the crap out of me. I apologize in advance if this get's rambly, but I had to share these thoughts! The first thing that happened that scared me? Well, it was a bit creepy, to be honest. Someone tried to Impersonate my Facebook Page I was searching for the Hey There, Chelsie Facebook Page and realized I had clicked on a page that wasn't mine...but my photo was in the profile and header picture. Yeah, that's right. Someone took photos . . .

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59 Comments · Written On:November 17, 2016

Hey There, September: Blogging and Personal goals for September 2016 // Hey There, Chelsie

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Hey There, September (Personal + Blogging Goals)

I think September may be my favorite month of the year. I mean, I love October more than anything, and November and December are awesome because #christmasmusic, but September may just take the cake. For the last couple of years, September has meant new beginnings, fresh starts, and the coming of the holiday season. September means days where the sun is warm on your face, but the breeze is cool on your arms. September means all the pumpkin candles and homemade stews in crockpots and dark berry lipstick. Every year when September rolls around, I feel inspired, refreshed and renewed and this year is no different! August was busy for us. You can read about all the . . .

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36 Comments · Written On:September 6, 2016

How to start a Bullet Journal (and some spread ideas) #ad #pilotmylife // Hey There, Chelsie

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How to Start a Bullet Journal

This shop has been compensated by Collective Bias, Inc. and its advertiser. All opinions are mine alone. #PilotYourLife #CollectiveBias I'm not even kidding when I say that I have spent over 100 dollars in planners over the last 6 months, trying to find one that would work for me in this season of life. Each one has been used faithfully for 2-3 days and then ended up in a drawer of my desk or in the trash. It's been so frustrating for me, not only because I kept spending money on planners, but also because I needed a flexible system to keep my life and my blog organized. Since I'm not in school and work from home, having a pre-printed planner just wasn't . . .

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60 Comments · Written On:August 22, 2016

Why I Continue to Blog: Sharing some thoughts behind my point in writing on my blog, even when surrounded by devastation like the Louisiana floods. // Hey There, Chelsie

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Why I Continue to Blog

First of all, Dustin, Rosie, and I are all safe and dry. If you haven't heard about what's going on in LA, here's the short version of it: Over the weekend, Louisiana got hit with 6.9 trillion gallons of rain, causing over 40,000 homes to be damaged, 20,000 people to be displaced and 13 deaths. The locals here are saying that this flooding is worse than Katrina. You can read about the flooding here. Thank you to everyone who reached out over the last couple of days to check in on us; your texts, facebook messages, and phone calls have meant the world to us. We live on the third floor of our apartment building, and while we did have a bit of a scare with the . . .

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45 Comments · Written On:August 18, 2016

July seems like a good month to get my head back in the game. I'm laying out some simple, but important personal and blogging goals for the month! // Hey There, Chelsie

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Hey There, July (Personal & Blogging Goals)

I must have really been in a blogging rut because last month was the first month I didn't sit down and write out my goals in over a year on the blog! And boy, not having my monthly goals really did put a damper on the progress I made during this last month. I didn't realize how much writing out small, actionable goals that the beginning of every month really helped me accomplish some big things over the last 1.5 years. That being said, I am going to set just a few goals for July because Dustin and I are traveling at the end of the month to Chicago for my brother's wedding. I don't want to put too much on my plate and get overwhelmed, but I do have some specific . . .

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14 Comments · Written On:July 1, 2016

Blue Summer Dress Outfit Idea, paired with light jacket, wedges and statement earrings // Hey There, Chelsie

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How I Rediscovered My Blog’s Identity

I'm sure you're all tired of hearing me talk about how much I've been struggling with my blog recently, but I'm happy to say that after the unplanned blog break, taking the time to get back to my blogging roots, breaking up with Passionfruit Ads, and embracing this season of life called limbo, I finally feel like I'm coming out of the fog. It took me a while and a lot of time away from the computer screen, but I've got a content calendar that's full of ideas again and I'm choosing to type this over watching 5 episodes of Grey's Anatomy, so I'm taking it as a sign that things are getting back on track. The Journey of my Blog's Identity As a human being, I am . . .

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38 Comments · Written On:June 29, 2016

Bloggers: BEWARE PASSIONFRUIT ADS! What was once a site that many bloggers used to run their sponsorship programs has become a scam! Passionfruit Ads has stolen money from many bloggers and refuses to respond to any emails/tweets/inquiries. Find out just how bad things have gotten and spread the word: Do not let them take your money! // www.heytherechelsie

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Bloggers, BEWARE Passionfruit Ads

I'm livid. My blood is seriously boiling. And what's worse, after doing a little bit of digging, I've realized that I am not the only one. When I first started blogging in early 2015, one of the first things I jumped into was creating a sponsorship program for my sidebar of my blog. I'll admit, I was anxious to make a little money off of my blog as fast as I could so I could buy some equipment I wanted for my camera and running a sponsorship program seemed like the easiest and fastest way to monetize. (A sponsorship program is when other bloggers pay a small fee to put an ad on the sidebar of someone else's blog and have that blogger promote their content on their . . .

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65 Comments · Written On:June 22, 2016

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Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Ben Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Bend, OR favorites:
Breakfast šŸ„ž: @sparrowbakery - their French toast sticks are divine and their pasties are literal art. We ate here twice during our stay and would recommend it over and over again! 
Dinner šŸ½ : @bendbrewingco - Fried cheese curds, fresh and flakey fish and chips and amazing burgers, with beautiful patio seating right on the River. Plus everything was reasonably priced. 10/10 recommend. 
Coffee Shop ā˜•ļø: @dudleysbookshopbend - the CUTEST bookstore/coffee shop combo. Grab a cup of coffee or cocoa and a book all in one stop.
Entertainment: Catch live music and play golf in a state-of-the-art golf simulator at @waltreillysbend and grab a late night snack while you’re at it!
Adventures: Explore Lava River Cave and hike to Tumalo Falls! Both are great adventures and not too intense of hikes - Tumalo Falls is a trail with several waterfalls featured in the above reel!
Bend was a dreamy slice of heaven and we cannot wait to go back - it’s the most delicious little town in a dreamy setting. 
#bendoregon #bendoregonlife #traveloregon #centraloregon #pacificnorthwestisbest #coupletravelgoals #pnwwaterfalls #pnwadventures #pnwhiking #pnwhiking #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife
Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive d Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive doggo very seriously. 🤣 
It is a dream come true to be able to take him to work with me every week and to see him become a confident little warehouse dog who takes greeting everyone who comes in very seriously and who patiently lets us dress him up in accessories. When you shop from MSC, you are now supporting a family owned, women run small business AND a cute doodle! It’s a win-win!
#shopmscb #utahboutique #doodledog #modestboutique #modestdresses #goldendoodlecentral
Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t ha Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t have to be all doom and devastation. It’s not always easy, but we’re finding more joy and beauty in just living and exploring and taking advantage of all the time and freedom this new chapter of life has to offer us. 
Our week in the Oregon Wilderness has given me so much life, so much clarity, and so much energy for creating a life that I love. I realized I have so much to give, so much to do, and so much to be, even if I don’t have children or a family the way I thought I would. 
I do have a family. And I do have Littles to still leave a legacy behind for - and an example to set for. And that’s enough for me. 
#heytherechelsie #lifeafterinfertility #pnwadventures #bendoregonlife #oregoncoastline #portlandoregonlife #infertilityawareness #infertilitywarrior #infertilitysucks #ttccommunity
At least I know he’ll never leave me because he At least I know he’ll never leave me because he can’t survive on his own. Jk jk - love you babe! 😘
#textsfrommyhusband #textmessage #couplegoalsā¤ļø #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #husbandandwifegoals #lifeafterinfertility #infertilitywarrior
Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing matching jumpsuits and learning a tik tok dance in 90+ degree heat. Can’t think of anyone else I’d rather spend time with, making memories and watching chick flicks and eating endless amounts of nerd gummies and cheeze-it’s. 
P.S. I checked inventory and we only have FOUR of these left in stock right now. Don’t wait to snag it! 
#moneydontjigglejiggle #jumpsuitstyle #pinkjumpsuit #womeninstyle #matchingoutfitsšŸ‘­ #utahboutique #modestboutique #bestfriendsgoals
These nails win every šŸ‘ thing šŸ‘ @polkadotte These nails win every šŸ‘ thing šŸ‘ 
@polkadottedbysyd knocks it out of the park again. Don’t be afraid to save if you want to use it as inspo!
#summernails2022 #retronails #boycottboringnails #brightnailsdontcare #gelnailsaddict #nailartoftheday #summernailart
Dustin has never given up or given in on creating Dustin has never given up or given in on creating a beautiful life together after our journey to have children ended last year. Instead, he has thrown himself into finding the next chapter of our story and I’ve been hanging on to him for dear life as he ran full force into our new future. 
After working so hard for so long, he signed and closed on a darling house in The Poconos, Pennsylvania that we will be turning into an air bnb this summer (and vacationing in it ourselves in the fall) 🄳
If you would have told me last October as we went through with my hysterectomy that we would have a vacation home in the East to spend the next October in, I would have laughed in your face. I’ve never doubted Dustin, but it seemed impossible to think about moving forward with new dreams and goals after our journey to have kids came to a crashing hault. 
But here we are - creating a life we love and doing our best to make the most out of the cards we’ve been dealt. 
I can’t wait to take you all on this new adventure (because guess who is in charge of furnishing and managing the new air bnb?) 
Thank you for always cheering us on. We love you. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #lifeafterinfertility #childlessnotbychoice #realestatedreams #airbnbhosts #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #infertilitysucks #thepoconos
We have to change the narrative around those going We have to change the narrative around those going through infertility journeys. We have to stop saying: ā€œdon’t give up - you’ll get your baby someday!ā€ It’s doing a lot of unspoken damage to those of us in the throes of infertility. 
I understand that many say this to be positive and uplifting, but when we were faced with making a heartbreaking choice to end our infertility journey, I felt like I was giving up. Instead of confidently making a decision to remove the organ that was slowly killing me, I looked at other infertility accounts and saw the repeated message that if I kept on pushing through treatments, i too, would get my baby. I felt selfish and unsure that putting my health first was truly the right thing to do. There was almost nothing out there to help us find peace and validation in ending our infertility journey without feeling like massive failures.
I have felt so called to speak on this now that we’re in this next phase of life and to do my best to share a perspective I wish I had access to last year. I hope that by speaking up and sharing our life in this next chapter, we can help those who are looking for hope in moving on from infertility without a pregnancy or baby. 
If you are reaching the end of your journey, I want you to know that you are not giving up. You are not a failure. You are choosing to not let infertility destroy you. 
It’s okay to grieve the life you wanted, but I want you to know you can still build a life you love. 
You are not giving up. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #infertilityawareness #childlessnotbychoice #lifeafterinfertility #adenomyosis #hysterectomy #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #ttcsisters #ttctribe #ivfsupport #miscarriage #ihadamiscarriage

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