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Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Ben Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Bend, OR favorites:
Breakfast 🥞: @sparrowbakery - their French toast sticks are divine and their pasties are literal art. We ate here twice during our stay and would recommend it over and over again! 
Dinner 🍽 : @bendbrewingco - Fried cheese curds, fresh and flakey fish and chips and amazing burgers, with beautiful patio seating right on the River. Plus everything was reasonably priced. 10/10 recommend. 
Coffee Shop ☕️: @dudleysbookshopbend - the CUTEST bookstore/coffee shop combo. Grab a cup of coffee or cocoa and a book all in one stop.
Entertainment: Catch live music and play golf in a state-of-the-art golf simulator at @waltreillysbend and grab a late night snack while you’re at it!
Adventures: Explore Lava River Cave and hike to Tumalo Falls! Both are great adventures and not too intense of hikes - Tumalo Falls is a trail with several waterfalls featured in the above reel!
Bend was a dreamy slice of heaven and we cannot wait to go back - it’s the most delicious little town in a dreamy setting. 
#bendoregon #bendoregonlife #traveloregon #centraloregon #pacificnorthwestisbest #coupletravelgoals #pnwwaterfalls #pnwadventures #pnwhiking #pnwhiking #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife
Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive d Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive doggo very seriously. 🤣 
It is a dream come true to be able to take him to work with me every week and to see him become a confident little warehouse dog who takes greeting everyone who comes in very seriously and who patiently lets us dress him up in accessories. When you shop from MSC, you are now supporting a family owned, women run small business AND a cute doodle! It’s a win-win!
#shopmscb #utahboutique #doodledog #modestboutique #modestdresses #goldendoodlecentral
Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t ha Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t have to be all doom and devastation. It’s not always easy, but we’re finding more joy and beauty in just living and exploring and taking advantage of all the time and freedom this new chapter of life has to offer us. 
Our week in the Oregon Wilderness has given me so much life, so much clarity, and so much energy for creating a life that I love. I realized I have so much to give, so much to do, and so much to be, even if I don’t have children or a family the way I thought I would. 
I do have a family. And I do have Littles to still leave a legacy behind for - and an example to set for. And that’s enough for me. 
#heytherechelsie #lifeafterinfertility #pnwadventures #bendoregonlife #oregoncoastline #portlandoregonlife #infertilityawareness #infertilitywarrior #infertilitysucks #ttccommunity
At least I know he’ll never leave me because he At least I know he’ll never leave me because he can’t survive on his own. Jk jk - love you babe! 😘
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Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing matching jumpsuits and learning a tik tok dance in 90+ degree heat. Can’t think of anyone else I’d rather spend time with, making memories and watching chick flicks and eating endless amounts of nerd gummies and cheeze-it’s. 
P.S. I checked inventory and we only have FOUR of these left in stock right now. Don’t wait to snag it! 
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These nails win every 👏 thing 👏 @polkadotte These nails win every 👏 thing 👏 
@polkadottedbysyd knocks it out of the park again. Don’t be afraid to save if you want to use it as inspo!
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Dustin has never given up or given in on creating Dustin has never given up or given in on creating a beautiful life together after our journey to have children ended last year. Instead, he has thrown himself into finding the next chapter of our story and I’ve been hanging on to him for dear life as he ran full force into our new future. 
After working so hard for so long, he signed and closed on a darling house in The Poconos, Pennsylvania that we will be turning into an air bnb this summer (and vacationing in it ourselves in the fall) 🥳
If you would have told me last October as we went through with my hysterectomy that we would have a vacation home in the East to spend the next October in, I would have laughed in your face. I’ve never doubted Dustin, but it seemed impossible to think about moving forward with new dreams and goals after our journey to have kids came to a crashing hault. 
But here we are - creating a life we love and doing our best to make the most out of the cards we’ve been dealt. 
I can’t wait to take you all on this new adventure (because guess who is in charge of furnishing and managing the new air bnb?) 
Thank you for always cheering us on. We love you. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #lifeafterinfertility #childlessnotbychoice #realestatedreams #airbnbhosts #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #infertilitysucks #thepoconos
We have to change the narrative around those going We have to change the narrative around those going through infertility journeys. We have to stop saying: “don’t give up - you’ll get your baby someday!” It’s doing a lot of unspoken damage to those of us in the throes of infertility. 
I understand that many say this to be positive and uplifting, but when we were faced with making a heartbreaking choice to end our infertility journey, I felt like I was giving up. Instead of confidently making a decision to remove the organ that was slowly killing me, I looked at other infertility accounts and saw the repeated message that if I kept on pushing through treatments, i too, would get my baby. I felt selfish and unsure that putting my health first was truly the right thing to do. There was almost nothing out there to help us find peace and validation in ending our infertility journey without feeling like massive failures.
I have felt so called to speak on this now that we’re in this next phase of life and to do my best to share a perspective I wish I had access to last year. I hope that by speaking up and sharing our life in this next chapter, we can help those who are looking for hope in moving on from infertility without a pregnancy or baby. 
If you are reaching the end of your journey, I want you to know that you are not giving up. You are not a failure. You are choosing to not let infertility destroy you. 
It’s okay to grieve the life you wanted, but I want you to know you can still build a life you love. 
You are not giving up. 
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This post was created in partnership with Utah Furniture Deals. All opinions are my own.

I started writing about what a hot mess I’ve been over the last few weeks but then decided to save it for another post because when am I NOT a hot mess? Exactly. Long story short, between my site going down right before leaving on our cruise last week, dealing with some health problems, and just trying to keep my act together, things have been (say it all together) crazy town. The cruise was exactly what I needed last week. A WHOLE week, completely unplugged from online and from work and nothing but sunshine, salt water, and books to fill my time. I did a lot of thinking, evaluating, and soul searching while sitting on the deck of the Carnival Splendor, and I’m feeling really refreshed, motivated, and ready to tackle the second part of this year, head-on.

But again, I’ll save the details of all of that for another post, because today’s is LONG overdue. I’m so excited to finally reveal our Master Bedroom in our new home! I’ve had so many requests for posts sharing how I decorated our new space and to talk about how my interior decorating has evolved over time. Decorating our first home, and transforming our living room into a cozy coastal space, was my first experience creating a space 100% on my own. It was so hard to leave that space behind when we decided to sell our house, but I was excited to get into a new space and take all the lessons I learned in decorating our first home and apply it to our new space!

First things first: I am NOT an interior decorator (even though that’s what I originally wanted to be in high school. I took a drafting class and realized how much math I needed to do and then decided that I would NOT be pursuing a career in that after all.) For a while, I didn’t think I would even share this type of content on HTC because I’m really not an expert or anything like that. The more I thought about it, though, the more I realized that is exactly why I should share this stuff - because I’m an everyday kind of girl, decorating her home on a budget and without the talents of an interior designer. If you’re looking for a master bedroom by Joanna Gaines, you’ve come to the wrong space. But if you are looking for a real master bedroom, put together thoughtfully by someone who just wanted a relaxing and organized space, you’ve come to the right place.

Let’s get started, huh?

First things first - the vibe:

I don’t think there’s a specific theme in our Master. It’s not a farmhouse, it’s not modern, it’s not…anything really. I just wanted to focus on the vibe: relaxing. I wanted to be able to walk into our master and immediately feel at peace and ready to rest. With that vibe in mind, I decided to look for pieces that brightened up the space and that looked inviting and cozy. I wanted soft but clean and straightforward lines in the room so that everything flowed together and felt cohesive, even if it wasn’t. And since we were not going to paint the walls in our new home (we don’t love the color, but we also don’t hate it and we know firsthand how hard painting can be) I wanted to make sure I found pieces that brightened the space up. The walls are a bit darker than I would have chosen, so finding some bright pieces of furniture to balance it out was important to me.

I also knew I wanted our master to feel spacious and easy to move around in. The room is 2X bigger than our last master bedroom, but I didn’t want to fill it up with unnecessary amounts of furniture and clutter. I wanted to keep the room minimal in decorations because that would also allow the room to feel bigger and more spacious!

With the vibe in mind, it was time to tackle the new furniture.

Dustin and I finally agreed it was time to upgrade all of our bedroom furniture for our new master because our college bedroom set had seen better days. Not only was the dresser and bed pretty dinged up from all the moves we’ve made, but they were dark and had a farmhouse feel to them (which wasn’t the style I wanted in our new space.) Since Teddy has decided that he MUST sleep in the bed with us every night, we also decided it was time to upgrade to a king-sized mattress! That meant we were in the market for a new bed, mattress, nightstands, and dresser. Even though we were excited at getting some new furniture, I also wanted to make sure we stuck to a budget and really maximized our money.

I spent weeks and weeks looking at every website and walking through countless showroom floors, looking for new furniture and feeling pretty defeated about the prices. Everything seemed so extremely expensive and I was beginning to think we would have to just go back to Ikea and choose some pieces that were in our budget (even though I didn’t love the style of the furniture there.) However, before we pulled the trigger on an Ikea trip, we were able to find some AMAZING deals on furniture here in Utah!

The Bed - When Dustin and I first got married, we almost bought a bed that had storage underneath the frame but ended up going with something else more affordable. Now that we were for sure upgrading the frame for a King, we decided to revisit the idea of looking for a bed with drawers in the frame because we honestly can never have enough storage. We found this bed on Wayfair and I loved how soft and plushy the headboard looked. It seemed like it would fit the vibe I was going for with our Master and, surprise, I decided to NOT get the gray headboard and went with beige instead. I know, who even am I?! But, I was afraid the grey would be too dark and I wanted something lighter to go against the wall color. I actually really like the beige and think it feels softer and cozier in the space. Also, the storage under the bed is DEFINITELY a winner. We have all of our winter bedding, pillow covers, and sheets stored in some of the drawers, along with winter clothes and duffle bags. It’s awesome to have a place to store bulky things and not have them in the way! We ended up grabbing this bed on WayDay for $400, but right now it’s on sale for $388.00! (and free shipping with Wayfair! What a steal!)

The Dresser & Nightstands - I was browsing some local furniture shops on Instagram when I found Utah Furniture Deals and started looking through the page. It was full of beautiful pieces of furniture for really really amazing prices. Like, I could not believe the prices were that good type of prices. I was feeling so, so hopeful that we would actually be able to furnish our new bedroom and stay on budget! I reached out to them on Instagram to ask about a couple of pieces, and ended up talking with the owner of Utah Furniture Deals and learning all about how she started her business! Utah Furniture Deals is owned by a stay-at-home mom, Sara, who wanted to provide furniture to the ladies of Utah for amazing prices. She has a showroom in her garage of pieces you can order, along with a new website that shows you all of the pieces she can order in! She is able to keep the prices of the products insanely low because of her business model and still provide quality products!

I decided to order the Enrico Nightstands ($93.00 each, say WHAT?!) and the matching Enrico dresser ($261.00) to replace our college furniture. I loved that they were white with clean and straight lines without being too modern. I figured the white would really brighten up the room and allow the accent colors to pop on the dresser with any decor I choose. Our furniture arrived within a week at Sara’s house (talk about fast shipping!) and the dresser and nightstands were ALREADY BUILT! I don’t know about you, but after spending hours putting together Ikea furniture, it was such a nice surprise to receive furniture that was already constructed. Everything looked exactly like it did in the pictures on the website and all of the products we ordered were solid wood and really high quality.

Utah Furniture Deals is seriously THE place to order your furniture if you live in Utah. You seriously will not find better prices on furniture (trust me, I tried) and her selection is HUGE! There is something for everyone and every style. Can’t wait to show you the dining set we got from her next week!

With the furniture figured out, it was time for the final touches - the decor.

The bedding- I wanted to incorporate a few pops of color that felt vibrant, but relaxing at the same time, so I settled on some muted dusty blues and purples with a few pops of turquoise. I ordered some new velvet shams on Amazon for my pillows (I have three colors and rotate them out depending on the season!) and found this fun accent pillow at Homegoods for a bright pop of color! The blanket is the one I used to have in my office, but I felt like the color served better in the bedroom now and was also a Homegoods find!

The accessories - As I said above, it was important to me to keep the decor and accessories more minimal this time around. When we were decluttering to stage our house to sell, Dustin and I both LOVED how much bigger the house felt with so many things tucked away and vowed to keep things more minimal in the new house. It just feels cleaner (probably because it’s easier to keep clean with less stuff!) So, I decided just to put my necklace tree, earring box, and one picture frame on the dresser, along with a turquoise vase to add a pop of color. We also hung a white square mirror on the wall that was originally in my office because the combo of a white/mirror makes the room feel even bigger!

The artwork- I kept this to a minimum as well - we only hung our Star Map poster (which shows the night sky in Boston on the night we were married) and our favorite shot of us from our Salt Flats shoot last summer. The colors in the Salt Flats photo are soft and muted (similar to the colors we have going on in the room) and it just felt like the perfect piece to hang above the bed!


And that’s it! Our relaxing, minimal Master Bedroom done on a budget! All in all, we spent less than $1500.00 to furnish this room (and that includes the new Tuft & Needle King Sized Mattress!) and that’s largely thanks to the amazing deals we got from Utah Furniture Deals! To my Utah friends & readers - make sure you check the site out and feel free to message their Instagram if you have any questions about any products!

What do you think? How did I do? What furniture are you looking to replace? Let me know in the comments below!

 

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Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Ben Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Bend, OR favorites:
Breakfast 🥞: @sparrowbakery - their French toast sticks are divine and their pasties are literal art. We ate here twice during our stay and would recommend it over and over again! 
Dinner 🍽 : @bendbrewingco - Fried cheese curds, fresh and flakey fish and chips and amazing burgers, with beautiful patio seating right on the River. Plus everything was reasonably priced. 10/10 recommend. 
Coffee Shop ☕️: @dudleysbookshopbend - the CUTEST bookstore/coffee shop combo. Grab a cup of coffee or cocoa and a book all in one stop.
Entertainment: Catch live music and play golf in a state-of-the-art golf simulator at @waltreillysbend and grab a late night snack while you’re at it!
Adventures: Explore Lava River Cave and hike to Tumalo Falls! Both are great adventures and not too intense of hikes - Tumalo Falls is a trail with several waterfalls featured in the above reel!
Bend was a dreamy slice of heaven and we cannot wait to go back - it’s the most delicious little town in a dreamy setting. 
#bendoregon #bendoregonlife #traveloregon #centraloregon #pacificnorthwestisbest #coupletravelgoals #pnwwaterfalls #pnwadventures #pnwhiking #pnwhiking #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife
Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive d Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive doggo very seriously. 🤣 
It is a dream come true to be able to take him to work with me every week and to see him become a confident little warehouse dog who takes greeting everyone who comes in very seriously and who patiently lets us dress him up in accessories. When you shop from MSC, you are now supporting a family owned, women run small business AND a cute doodle! It’s a win-win!
#shopmscb #utahboutique #doodledog #modestboutique #modestdresses #goldendoodlecentral
Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t ha Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t have to be all doom and devastation. It’s not always easy, but we’re finding more joy and beauty in just living and exploring and taking advantage of all the time and freedom this new chapter of life has to offer us. 
Our week in the Oregon Wilderness has given me so much life, so much clarity, and so much energy for creating a life that I love. I realized I have so much to give, so much to do, and so much to be, even if I don’t have children or a family the way I thought I would. 
I do have a family. And I do have Littles to still leave a legacy behind for - and an example to set for. And that’s enough for me. 
#heytherechelsie #lifeafterinfertility #pnwadventures #bendoregonlife #oregoncoastline #portlandoregonlife #infertilityawareness #infertilitywarrior #infertilitysucks #ttccommunity
At least I know he’ll never leave me because he At least I know he’ll never leave me because he can’t survive on his own. Jk jk - love you babe! 😘
#textsfrommyhusband #textmessage #couplegoals❤️ #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #husbandandwifegoals #lifeafterinfertility #infertilitywarrior
Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing matching jumpsuits and learning a tik tok dance in 90+ degree heat. Can’t think of anyone else I’d rather spend time with, making memories and watching chick flicks and eating endless amounts of nerd gummies and cheeze-it’s. 
P.S. I checked inventory and we only have FOUR of these left in stock right now. Don’t wait to snag it! 
#moneydontjigglejiggle #jumpsuitstyle #pinkjumpsuit #womeninstyle #matchingoutfits👭 #utahboutique #modestboutique #bestfriendsgoals
These nails win every 👏 thing 👏 @polkadotte These nails win every 👏 thing 👏 
@polkadottedbysyd knocks it out of the park again. Don’t be afraid to save if you want to use it as inspo!
#summernails2022 #retronails #boycottboringnails #brightnailsdontcare #gelnailsaddict #nailartoftheday #summernailart
Dustin has never given up or given in on creating Dustin has never given up or given in on creating a beautiful life together after our journey to have children ended last year. Instead, he has thrown himself into finding the next chapter of our story and I’ve been hanging on to him for dear life as he ran full force into our new future. 
After working so hard for so long, he signed and closed on a darling house in The Poconos, Pennsylvania that we will be turning into an air bnb this summer (and vacationing in it ourselves in the fall) 🥳
If you would have told me last October as we went through with my hysterectomy that we would have a vacation home in the East to spend the next October in, I would have laughed in your face. I’ve never doubted Dustin, but it seemed impossible to think about moving forward with new dreams and goals after our journey to have kids came to a crashing hault. 
But here we are - creating a life we love and doing our best to make the most out of the cards we’ve been dealt. 
I can’t wait to take you all on this new adventure (because guess who is in charge of furnishing and managing the new air bnb?) 
Thank you for always cheering us on. We love you. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #lifeafterinfertility #childlessnotbychoice #realestatedreams #airbnbhosts #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #infertilitysucks #thepoconos
We have to change the narrative around those going We have to change the narrative around those going through infertility journeys. We have to stop saying: “don’t give up - you’ll get your baby someday!” It’s doing a lot of unspoken damage to those of us in the throes of infertility. 
I understand that many say this to be positive and uplifting, but when we were faced with making a heartbreaking choice to end our infertility journey, I felt like I was giving up. Instead of confidently making a decision to remove the organ that was slowly killing me, I looked at other infertility accounts and saw the repeated message that if I kept on pushing through treatments, i too, would get my baby. I felt selfish and unsure that putting my health first was truly the right thing to do. There was almost nothing out there to help us find peace and validation in ending our infertility journey without feeling like massive failures.
I have felt so called to speak on this now that we’re in this next phase of life and to do my best to share a perspective I wish I had access to last year. I hope that by speaking up and sharing our life in this next chapter, we can help those who are looking for hope in moving on from infertility without a pregnancy or baby. 
If you are reaching the end of your journey, I want you to know that you are not giving up. You are not a failure. You are choosing to not let infertility destroy you. 
It’s okay to grieve the life you wanted, but I want you to know you can still build a life you love. 
You are not giving up. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #infertilityawareness #childlessnotbychoice #lifeafterinfertility #adenomyosis #hysterectomy #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #ttcsisters #ttctribe #ivfsupport #miscarriage #ihadamiscarriage

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Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Ben Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Bend, OR favorites:
Breakfast 🥞: @sparrowbakery - their French toast sticks are divine and their pasties are literal art. We ate here twice during our stay and would recommend it over and over again! 
Dinner 🍽 : @bendbrewingco - Fried cheese curds, fresh and flakey fish and chips and amazing burgers, with beautiful patio seating right on the River. Plus everything was reasonably priced. 10/10 recommend. 
Coffee Shop ☕️: @dudleysbookshopbend - the CUTEST bookstore/coffee shop combo. Grab a cup of coffee or cocoa and a book all in one stop.
Entertainment: Catch live music and play golf in a state-of-the-art golf simulator at @waltreillysbend and grab a late night snack while you’re at it!
Adventures: Explore Lava River Cave and hike to Tumalo Falls! Both are great adventures and not too intense of hikes - Tumalo Falls is a trail with several waterfalls featured in the above reel!
Bend was a dreamy slice of heaven and we cannot wait to go back - it’s the most delicious little town in a dreamy setting. 
#bendoregon #bendoregonlife #traveloregon #centraloregon #pacificnorthwestisbest #coupletravelgoals #pnwwaterfalls #pnwadventures #pnwhiking #pnwhiking #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife
Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive d Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive doggo very seriously. 🤣 
It is a dream come true to be able to take him to work with me every week and to see him become a confident little warehouse dog who takes greeting everyone who comes in very seriously and who patiently lets us dress him up in accessories. When you shop from MSC, you are now supporting a family owned, women run small business AND a cute doodle! It’s a win-win!
#shopmscb #utahboutique #doodledog #modestboutique #modestdresses #goldendoodlecentral
Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t ha Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t have to be all doom and devastation. It’s not always easy, but we’re finding more joy and beauty in just living and exploring and taking advantage of all the time and freedom this new chapter of life has to offer us. 
Our week in the Oregon Wilderness has given me so much life, so much clarity, and so much energy for creating a life that I love. I realized I have so much to give, so much to do, and so much to be, even if I don’t have children or a family the way I thought I would. 
I do have a family. And I do have Littles to still leave a legacy behind for - and an example to set for. And that’s enough for me. 
#heytherechelsie #lifeafterinfertility #pnwadventures #bendoregonlife #oregoncoastline #portlandoregonlife #infertilityawareness #infertilitywarrior #infertilitysucks #ttccommunity
At least I know he’ll never leave me because he At least I know he’ll never leave me because he can’t survive on his own. Jk jk - love you babe! 😘
#textsfrommyhusband #textmessage #couplegoals❤️ #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #husbandandwifegoals #lifeafterinfertility #infertilitywarrior
Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing matching jumpsuits and learning a tik tok dance in 90+ degree heat. Can’t think of anyone else I’d rather spend time with, making memories and watching chick flicks and eating endless amounts of nerd gummies and cheeze-it’s. 
P.S. I checked inventory and we only have FOUR of these left in stock right now. Don’t wait to snag it! 
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These nails win every 👏 thing 👏 @polkadotte These nails win every 👏 thing 👏 
@polkadottedbysyd knocks it out of the park again. Don’t be afraid to save if you want to use it as inspo!
#summernails2022 #retronails #boycottboringnails #brightnailsdontcare #gelnailsaddict #nailartoftheday #summernailart
Dustin has never given up or given in on creating Dustin has never given up or given in on creating a beautiful life together after our journey to have children ended last year. Instead, he has thrown himself into finding the next chapter of our story and I’ve been hanging on to him for dear life as he ran full force into our new future. 
After working so hard for so long, he signed and closed on a darling house in The Poconos, Pennsylvania that we will be turning into an air bnb this summer (and vacationing in it ourselves in the fall) 🥳
If you would have told me last October as we went through with my hysterectomy that we would have a vacation home in the East to spend the next October in, I would have laughed in your face. I’ve never doubted Dustin, but it seemed impossible to think about moving forward with new dreams and goals after our journey to have kids came to a crashing hault. 
But here we are - creating a life we love and doing our best to make the most out of the cards we’ve been dealt. 
I can’t wait to take you all on this new adventure (because guess who is in charge of furnishing and managing the new air bnb?) 
Thank you for always cheering us on. We love you. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #lifeafterinfertility #childlessnotbychoice #realestatedreams #airbnbhosts #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #infertilitysucks #thepoconos
We have to change the narrative around those going We have to change the narrative around those going through infertility journeys. We have to stop saying: “don’t give up - you’ll get your baby someday!” It’s doing a lot of unspoken damage to those of us in the throes of infertility. 
I understand that many say this to be positive and uplifting, but when we were faced with making a heartbreaking choice to end our infertility journey, I felt like I was giving up. Instead of confidently making a decision to remove the organ that was slowly killing me, I looked at other infertility accounts and saw the repeated message that if I kept on pushing through treatments, i too, would get my baby. I felt selfish and unsure that putting my health first was truly the right thing to do. There was almost nothing out there to help us find peace and validation in ending our infertility journey without feeling like massive failures.
I have felt so called to speak on this now that we’re in this next phase of life and to do my best to share a perspective I wish I had access to last year. I hope that by speaking up and sharing our life in this next chapter, we can help those who are looking for hope in moving on from infertility without a pregnancy or baby. 
If you are reaching the end of your journey, I want you to know that you are not giving up. You are not a failure. You are choosing to not let infertility destroy you. 
It’s okay to grieve the life you wanted, but I want you to know you can still build a life you love. 
You are not giving up. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #infertilityawareness #childlessnotbychoice #lifeafterinfertility #adenomyosis #hysterectomy #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #ttcsisters #ttctribe #ivfsupport #miscarriage #ihadamiscarriage

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