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Endlessly grateful for being 6 weeks post op from Endlessly grateful for being 6 weeks post op from my total hysterectomy and feeling more like myself than I have in over a year. And I’m endlessly grateful for this guy - who has been my rock through every doctor’s appointment, every procedure, and every day I couldn’t get out of bed. Not only that, he is the sweetest, most tender uncle to our nieces that I could ever hope or ask for to share our girls with.
Just grateful for my health and my love and the hope for better days.
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You are the keeper of all my secrets, the guardian You are the keeper of all my secrets, the guardian against all my fears, and the safe place I call home. 
Grateful to have you by my side as we walk into an unknown future that neither of us were prepared to face. But every day we walk further down our new road, I find more solid footing and more hope for what’s to come, because you keep me grounded through the waves of grief.
I love you. ❤️
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #hysterectomy #childlessnotbychoice #ttccommunity #childless #adenomyosis #ttcjourney #infertilityawareness
I’m officially three weeks post hysterectomy tod I’m officially three weeks post hysterectomy today and was feeling well enough to shoot the holiday campaign photos for @shopmscb (with the help from my partner in crime, @kenzie_peach)
In fact, I told my surgeon last week at my first post-op appointment that I’m actually feeling the best I’ve felt ALL year. And I mean, that’s saying something since I was only two weeks post-op then, right? 
Even though the decision to go through with the hysterectomy felt impossibly hard to make, I know now that I made the right choice for me, my sanity, and my body. I feel more like me in the last week than I have in over a year. It’s like I’m waking up from a long, painful, dark hibernation and my world is starting to fill with vibrant colors again.
And even though I’m still sad it had to come to this, I am also feeling excited for what’s to come.
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #hysterectomy #hysterectomyrecovery #childlessnotbychoice #ttccommunity #infertilityawareness #infertilitywarrior #ttccommunity
There’s been a little more laughter in our home There’s been a little more laughter in our home lately. Snuggles and kisses and staying up way too late watching Netflix. It’s like the worst is behind us and we’re on the other side of what we’ve been dreading and the darkness that has covered us for so long is starting to lift. It doesn’t mean we’re 100% okay, but we can feel the light and the hope for the future and we’re choosing to face it hand-in-hand, together. 
And every night, you whisper to me: “This isn’t your fault. You’re my best friend. I love you more today than ever before. We’re going to live a beautiful life together.” And every night, we grow a little bit closer and our hearts mend a little more, and I know deep in my bones, that we’re going to be okay.
I love you, Dustin.
#ttccommunity #ttcjourney #hysterectomy #childfreenotbychoice #childfreeafterinfertility #infertilityawareness #infertilitysucks #healingafterinfertility
Never in a million years did I think I would be bu Never in a million years did I think I would be buying and wearing postpartum undies without having a baby in my arms. But here we are, on #pregnancyandinfantlossawareness day today, and here I am: with a very swollen and tender belly, supported by a belly binder, not because I just had a baby, but because I’m post-hysterectomy.
Four years ago, we lost our first pregnancy and year after year, we went through infertility treatments, more pregnancy loss, surgeries, and now a total hysterectomy. And even though my doctor confirmed today after receiving my pathology results that we made the right decision, it doesn’t do much to lessen the grief.
And I guess I just want anyone out there who finds themselves carrying that same grief today to know that they are not alone. I know how hard it is to have your babies in heaven and not in your arms. I know what it’s like to have your dreams and future plans ripped out from underneath you and have no idea how to move forward. I know.
And even though today feels so sad and hard and unfair, I also know that there are pockets of peace and moments of joy to be found in the coming days and weeks and years. 
So here I am, in a belly binder and postpartum undies after a complete hysterectomy, missing my babies and holding on to hope for healing and better days.
#infertility #infertilityawareness #infertilityawareness #miscarriage #miscarriageawareness #hysterectomy #hysterectomyrecovery #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #ttcaftermiscarriage #infertilitywarrior
We made it. It’s surreal to be back at home, kno We made it.
It’s surreal to be back at home, knowing that the surgery we’ve been waiting for, dreading, but also looking forward to, is now behind us. We have officially closed the door to having bio kids and it’s hard to wrap my mind around it. But it’s done.
I had a lot of doubt and second guessing leading up to yesterday - wondering if I was giving up too fast or taking the “easy way out.” It was such a relief to hear my doctor say that my uterus was abnormally large and filled with vascular masses and that we made the right choice to remove it. I wasn’t making it up. I wasn’t exaggerating. It had to go if I was going to have any quality of life.
And to be honest, I would really love a better quality of life. My uterus took my fertility but it sure as heck wasn’t going to take my quality of life. 
And so here we are, on the other side of the surgery and getting ready to focus on healing, both physically and emotionally. It’s not easy, but it’s doable. I am hopeful for better days.
Thank you for the countless texts, messages, flowers, and cookie deliveries. Your love and prayers have made the difference for us during this time and I cannot thank you enough.
Let the healing begin.
#infertility #infertilityawareness #hysterectomy #hysterectomyrecovery #ttcjourney #infertilitysucks #infertilitywarrior #infertilitysupport #hysterectomyawareness #misscarriage #uofuhealth
Between the sun and the sea and in this peaceful p Between the sun and the sea and in this peaceful piece of paradise, we have started to turn our wounds into wisdom. We have started to dream again. We have started to make plans to rebuild. We have started to heal.
Even here, we are growing. Together.
I love you, Dustin. We’re going to be okay.
#cabosanlucasmexico #villadelmar #cabomexico #infertilityawareness #childlessnotbychoice #childfreeafterinfertility #childfreenotbychoice #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #healingafterinfertility
After a year of cancer scares, two CT scans, one M After a year of cancer scares, two CT scans, one MRI, countless blood draws, and devastating news regarding our journey to have kids, it’s feels damn good to have good news to share today.
I am 15 years cancer free. I have officially lived half my life as a cancer survivor. That’s a win I will happily take and happily celebrate.
WBC has come back within normal ranges. I’m still severely anemic (to be expected right now with everything going on) so I’ll be going back for an Iron IV Transfusion on Friday to try to help my body catch back up after a hard few months of periods. Lymph nodes feel normal. Lungs sound good. Leg looks solid.
For 15 years, this body has fought to keep my cancer away. And despite all that we’re going though now, all’s I feel is an immense sense of love and gratitude for it. She has worked hard to keep me alive and as healthy as possible. 
We’re on the same team, my body and I. And now it’s my turn to fight for her and get this toxic organ out and get healthy again. 
On to the next year. 
#cancersurvivor #pediatriccancer #childhoodcancer #osteosarcoma #utahcancerspecialists #cancerfree #cancerremission #childhoodcancerawareness #childhoodcancersurvivor #cancerfighter

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There’s nothing quite like the feeling a fresh start, am I right? Even though I know that I can have a fresh start any time or day or month during the year, there is just something so special and motivating about the fresh start that comes with a new year. However, I’ve found that I typically start the New Year with a sense of chaos because of the holidays just ending and all the traveling and craziness that comes with the holidays, especially when you’re hosting.

This year, I wanted to make sure that we did everything we could to put some distance between that chaos (as magical as it is) and carve out some time to really prepare for the New Year. We were able to tackle most of this list during the weekend between Christmas and New Year’s and we made sure to carve out time this coming weekend to finish it. I know that I have a hard time focusing on my goals and projects when my home base and life feels unorganized and chaotic, so this list is everything I do during the first week/weekend of the New Year so I can focus on the things I want to work on the most!

Put Christmas away ASAP - While I LOVE Christmas decorations more than Santa, I make sure Christmas comes down as fast as possible once the holiday is over. (I do put Christmas up on November 1st, so I enjoy it for almost 2 months!) We have two trees, a ton of ornaments and decorations, plates, and lights all over the house and it’s really hard to focus on preparing for a new year when Christmas from the previous year is still up. So, before doing anything - take the time to take Christmas down and put it away (and clean up the pine needles from your tree if you have a real one!)

Clean out your fridge and pantry - Our fridge, freezer, and the pantry all were FULL of leftovers, 3/4th eaten tubs of dips, ribs from the summer that were freezer burnt, open bags of chips, Christmas Cookies and Chinese food from New Year. Since Dustin and I have some health goals for 2019, it was imperative that we took the time to toss away anything that was bad or that didn’t fit into the parameters we had set for ourselves. Having a super clean fridge and pantry helped us see what gaps we needed to fill and what food we still had so we could prepare our meal plan without having to spend a lot of money!

Do ALL of the laundry - We spent a solid day last weekend running 8 loads of laundry. We washed ALL the linens, towels, workout clothes, new clothes from Christmas, and the dirty laundry. It’s really nice to know that everything in the linen closet is clean and can be pulled out and used in the coming months, that our guest room is ready to be used for the next set of guests, and that all of my socks are clean, (somewhat) matched, and organized in my drawers!

Clean out your closet and organize it - While you’re putting away all the laundry that you finished, take some time to clean out and organize your closet. I didn’t do a MASSIVE cleanout as I do between season, but I made sure that all my clothes were neatly hung, refolded my pants and sweatshirts that I keep on a shelf, and put my shoes back on the rack. I did create a small pile of clothes to donate that I realized I wasn’t wearing anymore and brought those to the Uptown Cheapskate to sell!

Vacuum & mop all your floors - I do not know about you, but my floors are the filthiest right after the holidays. Between all the people coming in and out of my house, the Christmas tree dropping pine needles, salt from melting the ice on the front porch and doggy paws, my floors are caked in grime. It took Dustin three rounds with our Dyson before it stopped sucking up dirt. Dis.gust.ing. It’s so nice to be able to walk barefoot in our house again and to not worry about what crap is sitting on the floors.

Go grocery shopping and choose some fruits and vegetables - Since your fridge is empty after being cleaned out, the first weekend of the new year is perfect to go grocery shopping and fill it with good foods (because, chances are you’ve made some health goal for the new year, right?) Don’t get overwhelmed - just choose a few fruits and veggies that you haven’t seen in your house in a while and take it from there. For us, it was apples, strawberries, and some asparagus!

Buy a new water bottle - One of my personal resolutions this year is to cut out soda. Completely. And yes, I’m crazy because I am addicted to Barq’s Rootbeer and have 4-6 cans of it a week. However, since my skin has been really flaring up over the last few months, I decided to stop drinking soda since it’s an inflammatory product and is shown to cause cystic acne. I also want to work on upping my water intake, so I wanted to snag a new water cup to help encourage me to drink. I love my Beast tumbler from Amazon (they come with two metal straws and a straw cleaner) so I ordered a second one to keep in my office!

Clean out your inbox - I’m sitting at over 100 unread messages in my inbox right now and it’s super overwhelming. A lot of them I’ve just left unread as a to-do list, so I need to go through and plug in dates and events into my calendar so I can get to inbox zero!

Buy a new planner/calendar & spend some time setting it up - I REALLY love my Erin Condren planner and use it to keep a lot of my work projects and blog deadlines (along with appointments) planned out. I blocked out a giant chunk of time this coming weekend to sit down and put in all the important dates, birthdays, and trips that I have coming up in the first quarter so I can have a clear picture of what’s going to be happening over the next few months!

Schedule important appointments - Going hand-in-hand with setting up a new planner, it’s also a great time to sit down and make all those appointments that you dread making, You know - oil change for the car, going to get your dental cleaning, your first meeting with your tax lady, etc. etc. Get it all done and over with and take it from there!

Throw away expired makeup products - Woof. Did this take me a while to do. SO MANY MASCARAS AND EYELINERS THAT WERE DRIED OUT AND OLD. I also had a lot of foundations that were over two years old and definitely not good matches for my current skin tone. It was satisfying to take stock of what I have, what I need to replace, and realize what products I have loved and used over the years!

Set some goals, choose a word of the year, or create a vision board - I just ordered the Cultivate What Matters Powersheet Goal Planner to help me set more goals this year and I’m so excited to give them a try! I’ve had a lot of people recommend them to me, and while I always set goals for the year (both personally and for my business) I’m excited to use this tool to clarify them and keep track of them. I also pick a word for the year to help guide and inspire my actions for the year. (I share my 2019 word yesterday in one of the most real and raw posts I’ve written in a long time - you can read it here!)

Set aside some time to reflect on the last year by using these Reflection Questions - I can guarantee you that it is easier to have clear intentions and goals if you take some time to reflect back on the last year. The reflection questions I use help me celebrate all my accomplishments and analyze what areas I could improve on! That always gives me clarity on what things I want to improve on in the new year and motivates me to start the year off with the best energy possible!


 

Time to get crackin’ on this list - I’ve got an inbox and a planner waiting for me to dig into and a new year on the horizon that I’m excited to conquer. What things on this list are you going to work on this weekend?

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Endlessly grateful for being 6 weeks post op from Endlessly grateful for being 6 weeks post op from my total hysterectomy and feeling more like myself than I have in over a year. And I’m endlessly grateful for this guy - who has been my rock through every doctor’s appointment, every procedure, and every day I couldn’t get out of bed. Not only that, he is the sweetest, most tender uncle to our nieces that I could ever hope or ask for to share our girls with.
Just grateful for my health and my love and the hope for better days.
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #ttccommunity #hysterectomy #hysterectomyrecovery #ttcjourney #husbandwife #ttcsupport #infertilitysucks
You are the keeper of all my secrets, the guardian You are the keeper of all my secrets, the guardian against all my fears, and the safe place I call home. 
Grateful to have you by my side as we walk into an unknown future that neither of us were prepared to face. But every day we walk further down our new road, I find more solid footing and more hope for what’s to come, because you keep me grounded through the waves of grief.
I love you. ❤️
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #hysterectomy #childlessnotbychoice #ttccommunity #childless #adenomyosis #ttcjourney #infertilityawareness
I’m officially three weeks post hysterectomy tod I’m officially three weeks post hysterectomy today and was feeling well enough to shoot the holiday campaign photos for @shopmscb (with the help from my partner in crime, @kenzie_peach)
In fact, I told my surgeon last week at my first post-op appointment that I’m actually feeling the best I’ve felt ALL year. And I mean, that’s saying something since I was only two weeks post-op then, right? 
Even though the decision to go through with the hysterectomy felt impossibly hard to make, I know now that I made the right choice for me, my sanity, and my body. I feel more like me in the last week than I have in over a year. It’s like I’m waking up from a long, painful, dark hibernation and my world is starting to fill with vibrant colors again.
And even though I’m still sad it had to come to this, I am also feeling excited for what’s to come.
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #hysterectomy #hysterectomyrecovery #childlessnotbychoice #ttccommunity #infertilityawareness #infertilitywarrior #ttccommunity
There’s been a little more laughter in our home There’s been a little more laughter in our home lately. Snuggles and kisses and staying up way too late watching Netflix. It’s like the worst is behind us and we’re on the other side of what we’ve been dreading and the darkness that has covered us for so long is starting to lift. It doesn’t mean we’re 100% okay, but we can feel the light and the hope for the future and we’re choosing to face it hand-in-hand, together. 
And every night, you whisper to me: “This isn’t your fault. You’re my best friend. I love you more today than ever before. We’re going to live a beautiful life together.” And every night, we grow a little bit closer and our hearts mend a little more, and I know deep in my bones, that we’re going to be okay.
I love you, Dustin.
#ttccommunity #ttcjourney #hysterectomy #childfreenotbychoice #childfreeafterinfertility #infertilityawareness #infertilitysucks #healingafterinfertility
Never in a million years did I think I would be bu Never in a million years did I think I would be buying and wearing postpartum undies without having a baby in my arms. But here we are, on #pregnancyandinfantlossawareness day today, and here I am: with a very swollen and tender belly, supported by a belly binder, not because I just had a baby, but because I’m post-hysterectomy.
Four years ago, we lost our first pregnancy and year after year, we went through infertility treatments, more pregnancy loss, surgeries, and now a total hysterectomy. And even though my doctor confirmed today after receiving my pathology results that we made the right decision, it doesn’t do much to lessen the grief.
And I guess I just want anyone out there who finds themselves carrying that same grief today to know that they are not alone. I know how hard it is to have your babies in heaven and not in your arms. I know what it’s like to have your dreams and future plans ripped out from underneath you and have no idea how to move forward. I know.
And even though today feels so sad and hard and unfair, I also know that there are pockets of peace and moments of joy to be found in the coming days and weeks and years. 
So here I am, in a belly binder and postpartum undies after a complete hysterectomy, missing my babies and holding on to hope for healing and better days.
#infertility #infertilityawareness #infertilityawareness #miscarriage #miscarriageawareness #hysterectomy #hysterectomyrecovery #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #ttcaftermiscarriage #infertilitywarrior
We made it. It’s surreal to be back at home, kno We made it.
It’s surreal to be back at home, knowing that the surgery we’ve been waiting for, dreading, but also looking forward to, is now behind us. We have officially closed the door to having bio kids and it’s hard to wrap my mind around it. But it’s done.
I had a lot of doubt and second guessing leading up to yesterday - wondering if I was giving up too fast or taking the “easy way out.” It was such a relief to hear my doctor say that my uterus was abnormally large and filled with vascular masses and that we made the right choice to remove it. I wasn’t making it up. I wasn’t exaggerating. It had to go if I was going to have any quality of life.
And to be honest, I would really love a better quality of life. My uterus took my fertility but it sure as heck wasn’t going to take my quality of life. 
And so here we are, on the other side of the surgery and getting ready to focus on healing, both physically and emotionally. It’s not easy, but it’s doable. I am hopeful for better days.
Thank you for the countless texts, messages, flowers, and cookie deliveries. Your love and prayers have made the difference for us during this time and I cannot thank you enough.
Let the healing begin.
#infertility #infertilityawareness #hysterectomy #hysterectomyrecovery #ttcjourney #infertilitysucks #infertilitywarrior #infertilitysupport #hysterectomyawareness #misscarriage #uofuhealth
Between the sun and the sea and in this peaceful p Between the sun and the sea and in this peaceful piece of paradise, we have started to turn our wounds into wisdom. We have started to dream again. We have started to make plans to rebuild. We have started to heal.
Even here, we are growing. Together.
I love you, Dustin. We’re going to be okay.
#cabosanlucasmexico #villadelmar #cabomexico #infertilityawareness #childlessnotbychoice #childfreeafterinfertility #childfreenotbychoice #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #healingafterinfertility
After a year of cancer scares, two CT scans, one M After a year of cancer scares, two CT scans, one MRI, countless blood draws, and devastating news regarding our journey to have kids, it’s feels damn good to have good news to share today.
I am 15 years cancer free. I have officially lived half my life as a cancer survivor. That’s a win I will happily take and happily celebrate.
WBC has come back within normal ranges. I’m still severely anemic (to be expected right now with everything going on) so I’ll be going back for an Iron IV Transfusion on Friday to try to help my body catch back up after a hard few months of periods. Lymph nodes feel normal. Lungs sound good. Leg looks solid.
For 15 years, this body has fought to keep my cancer away. And despite all that we’re going though now, all’s I feel is an immense sense of love and gratitude for it. She has worked hard to keep me alive and as healthy as possible. 
We’re on the same team, my body and I. And now it’s my turn to fight for her and get this toxic organ out and get healthy again. 
On to the next year. 
#cancersurvivor #pediatriccancer #childhoodcancer #osteosarcoma #utahcancerspecialists #cancerfree #cancerremission #childhoodcancerawareness #childhoodcancersurvivor #cancerfighter

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Endlessly grateful for being 6 weeks post op from Endlessly grateful for being 6 weeks post op from my total hysterectomy and feeling more like myself than I have in over a year. And I’m endlessly grateful for this guy - who has been my rock through every doctor’s appointment, every procedure, and every day I couldn’t get out of bed. Not only that, he is the sweetest, most tender uncle to our nieces that I could ever hope or ask for to share our girls with.
Just grateful for my health and my love and the hope for better days.
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #ttccommunity #hysterectomy #hysterectomyrecovery #ttcjourney #husbandwife #ttcsupport #infertilitysucks
You are the keeper of all my secrets, the guardian You are the keeper of all my secrets, the guardian against all my fears, and the safe place I call home. 
Grateful to have you by my side as we walk into an unknown future that neither of us were prepared to face. But every day we walk further down our new road, I find more solid footing and more hope for what’s to come, because you keep me grounded through the waves of grief.
I love you. ❤️
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #hysterectomy #childlessnotbychoice #ttccommunity #childless #adenomyosis #ttcjourney #infertilityawareness
I’m officially three weeks post hysterectomy tod I’m officially three weeks post hysterectomy today and was feeling well enough to shoot the holiday campaign photos for @shopmscb (with the help from my partner in crime, @kenzie_peach)
In fact, I told my surgeon last week at my first post-op appointment that I’m actually feeling the best I’ve felt ALL year. And I mean, that’s saying something since I was only two weeks post-op then, right? 
Even though the decision to go through with the hysterectomy felt impossibly hard to make, I know now that I made the right choice for me, my sanity, and my body. I feel more like me in the last week than I have in over a year. It’s like I’m waking up from a long, painful, dark hibernation and my world is starting to fill with vibrant colors again.
And even though I’m still sad it had to come to this, I am also feeling excited for what’s to come.
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #hysterectomy #hysterectomyrecovery #childlessnotbychoice #ttccommunity #infertilityawareness #infertilitywarrior #ttccommunity
There’s been a little more laughter in our home There’s been a little more laughter in our home lately. Snuggles and kisses and staying up way too late watching Netflix. It’s like the worst is behind us and we’re on the other side of what we’ve been dreading and the darkness that has covered us for so long is starting to lift. It doesn’t mean we’re 100% okay, but we can feel the light and the hope for the future and we’re choosing to face it hand-in-hand, together. 
And every night, you whisper to me: “This isn’t your fault. You’re my best friend. I love you more today than ever before. We’re going to live a beautiful life together.” And every night, we grow a little bit closer and our hearts mend a little more, and I know deep in my bones, that we’re going to be okay.
I love you, Dustin.
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Never in a million years did I think I would be bu Never in a million years did I think I would be buying and wearing postpartum undies without having a baby in my arms. But here we are, on #pregnancyandinfantlossawareness day today, and here I am: with a very swollen and tender belly, supported by a belly binder, not because I just had a baby, but because I’m post-hysterectomy.
Four years ago, we lost our first pregnancy and year after year, we went through infertility treatments, more pregnancy loss, surgeries, and now a total hysterectomy. And even though my doctor confirmed today after receiving my pathology results that we made the right decision, it doesn’t do much to lessen the grief.
And I guess I just want anyone out there who finds themselves carrying that same grief today to know that they are not alone. I know how hard it is to have your babies in heaven and not in your arms. I know what it’s like to have your dreams and future plans ripped out from underneath you and have no idea how to move forward. I know.
And even though today feels so sad and hard and unfair, I also know that there are pockets of peace and moments of joy to be found in the coming days and weeks and years. 
So here I am, in a belly binder and postpartum undies after a complete hysterectomy, missing my babies and holding on to hope for healing and better days.
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We made it. It’s surreal to be back at home, kno We made it.
It’s surreal to be back at home, knowing that the surgery we’ve been waiting for, dreading, but also looking forward to, is now behind us. We have officially closed the door to having bio kids and it’s hard to wrap my mind around it. But it’s done.
I had a lot of doubt and second guessing leading up to yesterday - wondering if I was giving up too fast or taking the “easy way out.” It was such a relief to hear my doctor say that my uterus was abnormally large and filled with vascular masses and that we made the right choice to remove it. I wasn’t making it up. I wasn’t exaggerating. It had to go if I was going to have any quality of life.
And to be honest, I would really love a better quality of life. My uterus took my fertility but it sure as heck wasn’t going to take my quality of life. 
And so here we are, on the other side of the surgery and getting ready to focus on healing, both physically and emotionally. It’s not easy, but it’s doable. I am hopeful for better days.
Thank you for the countless texts, messages, flowers, and cookie deliveries. Your love and prayers have made the difference for us during this time and I cannot thank you enough.
Let the healing begin.
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Between the sun and the sea and in this peaceful p Between the sun and the sea and in this peaceful piece of paradise, we have started to turn our wounds into wisdom. We have started to dream again. We have started to make plans to rebuild. We have started to heal.
Even here, we are growing. Together.
I love you, Dustin. We’re going to be okay.
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After a year of cancer scares, two CT scans, one M After a year of cancer scares, two CT scans, one MRI, countless blood draws, and devastating news regarding our journey to have kids, it’s feels damn good to have good news to share today.
I am 15 years cancer free. I have officially lived half my life as a cancer survivor. That’s a win I will happily take and happily celebrate.
WBC has come back within normal ranges. I’m still severely anemic (to be expected right now with everything going on) so I’ll be going back for an Iron IV Transfusion on Friday to try to help my body catch back up after a hard few months of periods. Lymph nodes feel normal. Lungs sound good. Leg looks solid.
For 15 years, this body has fought to keep my cancer away. And despite all that we’re going though now, all’s I feel is an immense sense of love and gratitude for it. She has worked hard to keep me alive and as healthy as possible. 
We’re on the same team, my body and I. And now it’s my turn to fight for her and get this toxic organ out and get healthy again. 
On to the next year. 
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