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Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Ben Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Bend, OR favorites:
Breakfast šŸ„ž: @sparrowbakery - their French toast sticks are divine and their pasties are literal art. We ate here twice during our stay and would recommend it over and over again! 
Dinner šŸ½ : @bendbrewingco - Fried cheese curds, fresh and flakey fish and chips and amazing burgers, with beautiful patio seating right on the River. Plus everything was reasonably priced. 10/10 recommend. 
Coffee Shop ā˜•ļø: @dudleysbookshopbend - the CUTEST bookstore/coffee shop combo. Grab a cup of coffee or cocoa and a book all in one stop.
Entertainment: Catch live music and play golf in a state-of-the-art golf simulator at @waltreillysbend and grab a late night snack while you’re at it!
Adventures: Explore Lava River Cave and hike to Tumalo Falls! Both are great adventures and not too intense of hikes - Tumalo Falls is a trail with several waterfalls featured in the above reel!
Bend was a dreamy slice of heaven and we cannot wait to go back - it’s the most delicious little town in a dreamy setting. 
#bendoregon #bendoregonlife #traveloregon #centraloregon #pacificnorthwestisbest #coupletravelgoals #pnwwaterfalls #pnwadventures #pnwhiking #pnwhiking #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife
Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive d Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive doggo very seriously. 🤣 
It is a dream come true to be able to take him to work with me every week and to see him become a confident little warehouse dog who takes greeting everyone who comes in very seriously and who patiently lets us dress him up in accessories. When you shop from MSC, you are now supporting a family owned, women run small business AND a cute doodle! It’s a win-win!
#shopmscb #utahboutique #doodledog #modestboutique #modestdresses #goldendoodlecentral
Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t ha Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t have to be all doom and devastation. It’s not always easy, but we’re finding more joy and beauty in just living and exploring and taking advantage of all the time and freedom this new chapter of life has to offer us. 
Our week in the Oregon Wilderness has given me so much life, so much clarity, and so much energy for creating a life that I love. I realized I have so much to give, so much to do, and so much to be, even if I don’t have children or a family the way I thought I would. 
I do have a family. And I do have Littles to still leave a legacy behind for - and an example to set for. And that’s enough for me. 
#heytherechelsie #lifeafterinfertility #pnwadventures #bendoregonlife #oregoncoastline #portlandoregonlife #infertilityawareness #infertilitywarrior #infertilitysucks #ttccommunity
At least I know he’ll never leave me because he At least I know he’ll never leave me because he can’t survive on his own. Jk jk - love you babe! 😘
#textsfrommyhusband #textmessage #couplegoalsā¤ļø #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #husbandandwifegoals #lifeafterinfertility #infertilitywarrior
Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing matching jumpsuits and learning a tik tok dance in 90+ degree heat. Can’t think of anyone else I’d rather spend time with, making memories and watching chick flicks and eating endless amounts of nerd gummies and cheeze-it’s. 
P.S. I checked inventory and we only have FOUR of these left in stock right now. Don’t wait to snag it! 
#moneydontjigglejiggle #jumpsuitstyle #pinkjumpsuit #womeninstyle #matchingoutfitsšŸ‘­ #utahboutique #modestboutique #bestfriendsgoals
These nails win every šŸ‘ thing šŸ‘ @polkadotte These nails win every šŸ‘ thing šŸ‘ 
@polkadottedbysyd knocks it out of the park again. Don’t be afraid to save if you want to use it as inspo!
#summernails2022 #retronails #boycottboringnails #brightnailsdontcare #gelnailsaddict #nailartoftheday #summernailart
Dustin has never given up or given in on creating Dustin has never given up or given in on creating a beautiful life together after our journey to have children ended last year. Instead, he has thrown himself into finding the next chapter of our story and I’ve been hanging on to him for dear life as he ran full force into our new future. 
After working so hard for so long, he signed and closed on a darling house in The Poconos, Pennsylvania that we will be turning into an air bnb this summer (and vacationing in it ourselves in the fall) 🄳
If you would have told me last October as we went through with my hysterectomy that we would have a vacation home in the East to spend the next October in, I would have laughed in your face. I’ve never doubted Dustin, but it seemed impossible to think about moving forward with new dreams and goals after our journey to have kids came to a crashing hault. 
But here we are - creating a life we love and doing our best to make the most out of the cards we’ve been dealt. 
I can’t wait to take you all on this new adventure (because guess who is in charge of furnishing and managing the new air bnb?) 
Thank you for always cheering us on. We love you. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #lifeafterinfertility #childlessnotbychoice #realestatedreams #airbnbhosts #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #infertilitysucks #thepoconos
We have to change the narrative around those going We have to change the narrative around those going through infertility journeys. We have to stop saying: ā€œdon’t give up - you’ll get your baby someday!ā€ It’s doing a lot of unspoken damage to those of us in the throes of infertility. 
I understand that many say this to be positive and uplifting, but when we were faced with making a heartbreaking choice to end our infertility journey, I felt like I was giving up. Instead of confidently making a decision to remove the organ that was slowly killing me, I looked at other infertility accounts and saw the repeated message that if I kept on pushing through treatments, i too, would get my baby. I felt selfish and unsure that putting my health first was truly the right thing to do. There was almost nothing out there to help us find peace and validation in ending our infertility journey without feeling like massive failures.
I have felt so called to speak on this now that we’re in this next phase of life and to do my best to share a perspective I wish I had access to last year. I hope that by speaking up and sharing our life in this next chapter, we can help those who are looking for hope in moving on from infertility without a pregnancy or baby. 
If you are reaching the end of your journey, I want you to know that you are not giving up. You are not a failure. You are choosing to not let infertility destroy you. 
It’s okay to grieve the life you wanted, but I want you to know you can still build a life you love. 
You are not giving up. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #infertilityawareness #childlessnotbychoice #lifeafterinfertility #adenomyosis #hysterectomy #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #ttcsisters #ttctribe #ivfsupport #miscarriage #ihadamiscarriage

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Golden Tote Review

Thanks to Golden Tote for sponsoring this post today. I received free product in exchange for this review. All opinions are honest and my own.

Minus my successful trip to Walmart a few weeks ago, I have been really struggling in the shopping for clothes department. Moving from cold Idaho to 106 degree Chico, California weather has been a bit of a wardrobe shock for me and I didn’t realize how completely unprepared I was for my new climate change. Between not being prepared for warm weather and wanting to step up my game in looking more put together then usual, I really needed a solution. I was so excited when Golden Tote reached out to me and asked if I would be willing to try their service out!

Golden Tote is a clothing service that works a little differently than most. There is no monthly billing cycle; you order when you want some new clothes and choose from two options: The small tote (3-4 Items for $49) or the large tote (5-6 Items for $149). You get to choose 1-2 items (depending on the tote size) from their monthly selection that you definitely want to try. Then, you fill out a style profile and a stylist will pick out and additional 4-5 items and send it to you in a lovely tote! They also just released a surprise tote option for $99.00 which includes 4 pieces that are picked out just for you!This may seem pretty pricy at first, but when you compare it to the value of the items in your box, it’s a pretty screaming deal. Additionally, I’ve never had a Stitchfix box total come in anywhere near that price for all of the items in it (the lowest was 208) so all things considered, the price isn’t too bad for some quality items that I don’t have to spend hours looking for myself.

Golden Tote is an all or nothing bag, so you either keep it all or send it all back. If you like the majority of your pieces, you can hop on to their Facebook trading page and sell that one piece that just didn’t make the cut.

I left a note for my stylist requesting no thin strapped or strapless tops, things that are light for summer wear, possibly a maxi dress and pieces that would be flattering for my chest size. I also was open to pushing my boundaries a little by trying out more bohemian styles. MY STYLIST LISTENED! I’ve never had complete success with a stylist with any other clothing subscription box before, so I was really excited to see that I got pretty much exactly what I wanted!

Pretty Pleated Blouse - Requested Item

This was one of my requested items; I thought it looked light and airy for summer time and loved the pretty pleated detail on the neckline. I loved it even more on! I think that the fit is quite flattering and love that I can dress it up with my red leather jacket (Burlington Coat Factory) and some pretty jewels (Kendra Scott c/o Rocksbox)

Distressed White Skinnies - Requested Item

I requested the White Skinies because I have been looking for white pants FOREVER and couldn’t find any. I figured it would be fun to give the distressed pair a try for a different take. These jeans are so comfortable and fit really well. They are a tiny bit short on me, but I end up rolling my jeans once or twice in the summer, so it doesn’t bother me!

Sweet Claire Floral Print Tee:

This was a surprise item and I was so happy to see that my stylist sent me a summery top that had sleeves and felt cool and comfortable! It also pairs really well with the jeans I picked out!

 

Fun 2 Fun Ethnic Print Top

I pulled this out of the bag and was a little worried at first. I don’t have anything like this in my closet and probably wouldn’t pick it up at a store. But, when I tried it on, I instantly fell in love. The cut was super flattering, I loved that I could pair it with my new jeans and I love the print on me. Plus, it’s a super light and airy fabric perfect for summer!

Peach Love Sleeveless Shift Dress with Tassels

This was another piece that I was worried about when I pulled out. I’m super tall, so shift dresses tend to not work in my favor. I was excited to see that I got a more bohemian styled piece but was thinking this would be a piece that would have to be traded or sold on the facebook group. However, I decided to try it on with a pair of leggings and once I saw how it looked together, I knew I would keep it. With my height and the leggings, this piece looks more like an extra long tunic. I love the crocheted details and the pops of color. Although this would be more of a late summer/early fall look, I’m still super happy with it. It’s definitely outside of my comfort zone, but it’s been so fun to wear!

 

Pink Owl Floral Print Maxi Dress:

This is the one piece I’m considering trading on the Facebook page. I actually think it looks pretty good on and has a nice summery feel, but the waist line is a little weird on me. I won’t be heartbroken if I have to keep it, but I think I’ll try to trade it/sell it just for the experience and maybe finding a dress with a more flattering cut on the waist

Although I couldn’t find retail prices on all of these pieces, the ones I could find for four of the pieces added up to just over $200! So, I do feel like there are some serious savings to be found in using Golden Tote along with getting some fun pieces that are unique to you and your wardrobe!

Have you tried Golden Tote? What are your thoughts on my Maxi dress? What is your favorite piece that I got?

71 Comments · Written On:June 17, 2015

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Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Ben Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Bend, OR favorites:
Breakfast šŸ„ž: @sparrowbakery - their French toast sticks are divine and their pasties are literal art. We ate here twice during our stay and would recommend it over and over again! 
Dinner šŸ½ : @bendbrewingco - Fried cheese curds, fresh and flakey fish and chips and amazing burgers, with beautiful patio seating right on the River. Plus everything was reasonably priced. 10/10 recommend. 
Coffee Shop ā˜•ļø: @dudleysbookshopbend - the CUTEST bookstore/coffee shop combo. Grab a cup of coffee or cocoa and a book all in one stop.
Entertainment: Catch live music and play golf in a state-of-the-art golf simulator at @waltreillysbend and grab a late night snack while you’re at it!
Adventures: Explore Lava River Cave and hike to Tumalo Falls! Both are great adventures and not too intense of hikes - Tumalo Falls is a trail with several waterfalls featured in the above reel!
Bend was a dreamy slice of heaven and we cannot wait to go back - it’s the most delicious little town in a dreamy setting. 
#bendoregon #bendoregonlife #traveloregon #centraloregon #pacificnorthwestisbest #coupletravelgoals #pnwwaterfalls #pnwadventures #pnwhiking #pnwhiking #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife
Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive d Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive doggo very seriously. 🤣 
It is a dream come true to be able to take him to work with me every week and to see him become a confident little warehouse dog who takes greeting everyone who comes in very seriously and who patiently lets us dress him up in accessories. When you shop from MSC, you are now supporting a family owned, women run small business AND a cute doodle! It’s a win-win!
#shopmscb #utahboutique #doodledog #modestboutique #modestdresses #goldendoodlecentral
Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t ha Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t have to be all doom and devastation. It’s not always easy, but we’re finding more joy and beauty in just living and exploring and taking advantage of all the time and freedom this new chapter of life has to offer us. 
Our week in the Oregon Wilderness has given me so much life, so much clarity, and so much energy for creating a life that I love. I realized I have so much to give, so much to do, and so much to be, even if I don’t have children or a family the way I thought I would. 
I do have a family. And I do have Littles to still leave a legacy behind for - and an example to set for. And that’s enough for me. 
#heytherechelsie #lifeafterinfertility #pnwadventures #bendoregonlife #oregoncoastline #portlandoregonlife #infertilityawareness #infertilitywarrior #infertilitysucks #ttccommunity
At least I know he’ll never leave me because he At least I know he’ll never leave me because he can’t survive on his own. Jk jk - love you babe! 😘
#textsfrommyhusband #textmessage #couplegoalsā¤ļø #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #husbandandwifegoals #lifeafterinfertility #infertilitywarrior
Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing matching jumpsuits and learning a tik tok dance in 90+ degree heat. Can’t think of anyone else I’d rather spend time with, making memories and watching chick flicks and eating endless amounts of nerd gummies and cheeze-it’s. 
P.S. I checked inventory and we only have FOUR of these left in stock right now. Don’t wait to snag it! 
#moneydontjigglejiggle #jumpsuitstyle #pinkjumpsuit #womeninstyle #matchingoutfitsšŸ‘­ #utahboutique #modestboutique #bestfriendsgoals
These nails win every šŸ‘ thing šŸ‘ @polkadotte These nails win every šŸ‘ thing šŸ‘ 
@polkadottedbysyd knocks it out of the park again. Don’t be afraid to save if you want to use it as inspo!
#summernails2022 #retronails #boycottboringnails #brightnailsdontcare #gelnailsaddict #nailartoftheday #summernailart
Dustin has never given up or given in on creating Dustin has never given up or given in on creating a beautiful life together after our journey to have children ended last year. Instead, he has thrown himself into finding the next chapter of our story and I’ve been hanging on to him for dear life as he ran full force into our new future. 
After working so hard for so long, he signed and closed on a darling house in The Poconos, Pennsylvania that we will be turning into an air bnb this summer (and vacationing in it ourselves in the fall) 🄳
If you would have told me last October as we went through with my hysterectomy that we would have a vacation home in the East to spend the next October in, I would have laughed in your face. I’ve never doubted Dustin, but it seemed impossible to think about moving forward with new dreams and goals after our journey to have kids came to a crashing hault. 
But here we are - creating a life we love and doing our best to make the most out of the cards we’ve been dealt. 
I can’t wait to take you all on this new adventure (because guess who is in charge of furnishing and managing the new air bnb?) 
Thank you for always cheering us on. We love you. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #lifeafterinfertility #childlessnotbychoice #realestatedreams #airbnbhosts #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #infertilitysucks #thepoconos
We have to change the narrative around those going We have to change the narrative around those going through infertility journeys. We have to stop saying: ā€œdon’t give up - you’ll get your baby someday!ā€ It’s doing a lot of unspoken damage to those of us in the throes of infertility. 
I understand that many say this to be positive and uplifting, but when we were faced with making a heartbreaking choice to end our infertility journey, I felt like I was giving up. Instead of confidently making a decision to remove the organ that was slowly killing me, I looked at other infertility accounts and saw the repeated message that if I kept on pushing through treatments, i too, would get my baby. I felt selfish and unsure that putting my health first was truly the right thing to do. There was almost nothing out there to help us find peace and validation in ending our infertility journey without feeling like massive failures.
I have felt so called to speak on this now that we’re in this next phase of life and to do my best to share a perspective I wish I had access to last year. I hope that by speaking up and sharing our life in this next chapter, we can help those who are looking for hope in moving on from infertility without a pregnancy or baby. 
If you are reaching the end of your journey, I want you to know that you are not giving up. You are not a failure. You are choosing to not let infertility destroy you. 
It’s okay to grieve the life you wanted, but I want you to know you can still build a life you love. 
You are not giving up. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #infertilityawareness #childlessnotbychoice #lifeafterinfertility #adenomyosis #hysterectomy #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #ttcsisters #ttctribe #ivfsupport #miscarriage #ihadamiscarriage

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Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Ben Bend- you exceeded every expectation. Save for Bend, OR favorites:
Breakfast šŸ„ž: @sparrowbakery - their French toast sticks are divine and their pasties are literal art. We ate here twice during our stay and would recommend it over and over again! 
Dinner šŸ½ : @bendbrewingco - Fried cheese curds, fresh and flakey fish and chips and amazing burgers, with beautiful patio seating right on the River. Plus everything was reasonably priced. 10/10 recommend. 
Coffee Shop ā˜•ļø: @dudleysbookshopbend - the CUTEST bookstore/coffee shop combo. Grab a cup of coffee or cocoa and a book all in one stop.
Entertainment: Catch live music and play golf in a state-of-the-art golf simulator at @waltreillysbend and grab a late night snack while you’re at it!
Adventures: Explore Lava River Cave and hike to Tumalo Falls! Both are great adventures and not too intense of hikes - Tumalo Falls is a trail with several waterfalls featured in the above reel!
Bend was a dreamy slice of heaven and we cannot wait to go back - it’s the most delicious little town in a dreamy setting. 
#bendoregon #bendoregonlife #traveloregon #centraloregon #pacificnorthwestisbest #coupletravelgoals #pnwwaterfalls #pnwadventures #pnwhiking #pnwhiking #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife
Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive d Teddy takes his job as @shopmscb chief executive doggo very seriously. 🤣 
It is a dream come true to be able to take him to work with me every week and to see him become a confident little warehouse dog who takes greeting everyone who comes in very seriously and who patiently lets us dress him up in accessories. When you shop from MSC, you are now supporting a family owned, women run small business AND a cute doodle! It’s a win-win!
#shopmscb #utahboutique #doodledog #modestboutique #modestdresses #goldendoodlecentral
Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t ha Turns out that life after infertility doesn’t have to be all doom and devastation. It’s not always easy, but we’re finding more joy and beauty in just living and exploring and taking advantage of all the time and freedom this new chapter of life has to offer us. 
Our week in the Oregon Wilderness has given me so much life, so much clarity, and so much energy for creating a life that I love. I realized I have so much to give, so much to do, and so much to be, even if I don’t have children or a family the way I thought I would. 
I do have a family. And I do have Littles to still leave a legacy behind for - and an example to set for. And that’s enough for me. 
#heytherechelsie #lifeafterinfertility #pnwadventures #bendoregonlife #oregoncoastline #portlandoregonlife #infertilityawareness #infertilitywarrior #infertilitysucks #ttccommunity
At least I know he’ll never leave me because he At least I know he’ll never leave me because he can’t survive on his own. Jk jk - love you babe! 😘
#textsfrommyhusband #textmessage #couplegoalsā¤ļø #heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #husbandandwifegoals #lifeafterinfertility #infertilitywarrior
Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing Taking friendship to a whole new level and wearing matching jumpsuits and learning a tik tok dance in 90+ degree heat. Can’t think of anyone else I’d rather spend time with, making memories and watching chick flicks and eating endless amounts of nerd gummies and cheeze-it’s. 
P.S. I checked inventory and we only have FOUR of these left in stock right now. Don’t wait to snag it! 
#moneydontjigglejiggle #jumpsuitstyle #pinkjumpsuit #womeninstyle #matchingoutfitsšŸ‘­ #utahboutique #modestboutique #bestfriendsgoals
These nails win every šŸ‘ thing šŸ‘ @polkadotte These nails win every šŸ‘ thing šŸ‘ 
@polkadottedbysyd knocks it out of the park again. Don’t be afraid to save if you want to use it as inspo!
#summernails2022 #retronails #boycottboringnails #brightnailsdontcare #gelnailsaddict #nailartoftheday #summernailart
Dustin has never given up or given in on creating Dustin has never given up or given in on creating a beautiful life together after our journey to have children ended last year. Instead, he has thrown himself into finding the next chapter of our story and I’ve been hanging on to him for dear life as he ran full force into our new future. 
After working so hard for so long, he signed and closed on a darling house in The Poconos, Pennsylvania that we will be turning into an air bnb this summer (and vacationing in it ourselves in the fall) 🄳
If you would have told me last October as we went through with my hysterectomy that we would have a vacation home in the East to spend the next October in, I would have laughed in your face. I’ve never doubted Dustin, but it seemed impossible to think about moving forward with new dreams and goals after our journey to have kids came to a crashing hault. 
But here we are - creating a life we love and doing our best to make the most out of the cards we’ve been dealt. 
I can’t wait to take you all on this new adventure (because guess who is in charge of furnishing and managing the new air bnb?) 
Thank you for always cheering us on. We love you. 
#heytherechelsie #myvibrantlife #lifeafterinfertility #childlessnotbychoice #realestatedreams #airbnbhosts #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #infertilitysucks #thepoconos
We have to change the narrative around those going We have to change the narrative around those going through infertility journeys. We have to stop saying: ā€œdon’t give up - you’ll get your baby someday!ā€ It’s doing a lot of unspoken damage to those of us in the throes of infertility. 
I understand that many say this to be positive and uplifting, but when we were faced with making a heartbreaking choice to end our infertility journey, I felt like I was giving up. Instead of confidently making a decision to remove the organ that was slowly killing me, I looked at other infertility accounts and saw the repeated message that if I kept on pushing through treatments, i too, would get my baby. I felt selfish and unsure that putting my health first was truly the right thing to do. There was almost nothing out there to help us find peace and validation in ending our infertility journey without feeling like massive failures.
I have felt so called to speak on this now that we’re in this next phase of life and to do my best to share a perspective I wish I had access to last year. I hope that by speaking up and sharing our life in this next chapter, we can help those who are looking for hope in moving on from infertility without a pregnancy or baby. 
If you are reaching the end of your journey, I want you to know that you are not giving up. You are not a failure. You are choosing to not let infertility destroy you. 
It’s okay to grieve the life you wanted, but I want you to know you can still build a life you love. 
You are not giving up. 
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